When you understand the various tips and tricks that will make her want you, miss you, then you’ve got the key to make her crazy for you.

There’s a big difference between the legit and the sneaky way to get your girl to want you badly. Ask yourself if you want her for a quick one-night stand or if you really love her and want her forever.

If you choose the latter, here are a few specific steps that will help draw her in for keeps.



If you are going to accomplish anything in life, you’ve got to permeate a certain level of self-confidence and worth. When you’ve got visible confidence, not arrogance, you have the edge over the other guys, because girls are naturally attracted to men who aren’t afraid to take the lead.

There are guys who just can’t muster the courage to show their confidence in front of women. If that’s you, then you’re going to have to fake it until you make it. If you want a woman to think about you around the clock, you MUST show her you know what you want, and you are secure in being you.

Make sure you look the part by dressing nicely, showering and shaving, and putting the effort into your appearance, so any gal would be proud to have you as her man. Simple factors like this will help boost your confidence and move you one step closer to success.

To work on your confidence, you can practice talking with numerous girls. Practice doesn’t make perfect, but it will make you better. This will help you take the panic out of your next important date.


A major problem with guys trying to impress a girl is they aren’t reliable. They show up late or say and do something different from they’ve agreed to do. Sure, looking good will get you in the door, but you can’t use it to hit a home run.

In a girl’s eyes, if you can be trusted, you will become magically attractive. So, if a woman needs to vent or she needs help with something, make sure you are the man that gets there first.

Show her you can take care of her, and you will be in the running to make her crave you, and only you, badly.


Keep in mind, this one needs to be in moderation. Flirting is a good route to help build your self-esteem and put you in the green when socializing. Just make sure you are being real with your flirting. Fake flirting will get you nowhere fast.

Don’t forget; your purpose for flirting is to get her to laugh and to open the door for intimacy. When the air is light, it’s much easier to get closer, faster.


When you are around a girl every second of every day, you are going to get old, fast. Giving her space allows her the time she needs to miss you and think about you. The idea is you want her to want you, and she’s not going to get that opportunity if you won’t get out of her face.

She needs her individuality and needs to be respected for that. Besides, why would you want to be with a woman that is needy and doesn’t have the means to stand on her own two feet?

As tough as this may seem, it’s vital you give this girl her space to roam free. If she wants you, she will let you know, and if your plan of action is a success, she’s going to want you badly.


If there is any pointer you need to remember, it’s this one. This means you need to be the guy she confides in whenever she has good or bad news. If she picks up the phone and calls you, then you’re it!

Make sure you give her the safe place she needs, when she needs to open up to you about something. Give her a special nickname. Make her laugh, make her trust you, and most of all, make her want you.


She can’t accurately read your mind, so it’s important after you’ve established the basics, you let her know your intentions.

Why do you need to do this sooner rather than later?

For the disturbing reason, you might just get kicked to the friend zone. That’s a very difficult place to escape from; that’s for sure.

It’s important you move fast here. Let her know with your body language and subtle flirting that you aren’t interested in being cast to the friend zone.

Ask her out on a few dates and make sure you let her know, in moderation, you are thinking about her. Do thoughtful things for her and make sure you are there for her, no questions asked, when she needs you.

Open the door, so she’s comfortable with you, and when you are ready, take it to the next level and ask her out on a well-planned romantic date.


There’s just something endearing about a man that makes it his priority to treat a lady with respect. This means you should be opening the car door for her, helping her with her shopping bags, giving her your jacket when it’s chilly, and making sure she walks on the inside of the sidewalk away from traffic.

If you want her to think about you 24/7, then you’ve got to practice chivalry. Trust me on this one. It works!


It’s so easy to reach out and talk to her these days with instant access. Texting and messaging her is to your advantages because it lets her know you are thinking about her, even when you are busy at work.

Don’t overdo it, but you can establish some sort of routine to increase her interest in you. Start by texting her good morning and good night, no matter what. This is a clever move because it means she is thinking about you when she wakes up and when she hits the hay at night.

That’s not quite enough, so you should send her a message at least once during the day. Keeping this message at a random time is your best route. Give her a little anticipation during the day, wondering when you are going to reach out.

A little mystery works wonders in the wildly wonderful world of dating.


It really doesn’t matter if you are texting back and forth or you’re out on a real date. It’s vital you always leave her wanting more of you. The last thing you want is for her to get bored of you and, worse yet, forget about you altogether.

When you leave conversations on a high note, she’s going to be excited and left just a little short. That will boost her eagerness to communicate with you again. You are forcing her hand to think about you.

So, make sure you never run out of things to talk about. Better yet, make it a practice to start an interesting story and then make an excuse you’ve got to go, and you’ll have to finish it another time. This is an excellent tactic to make her want you badly.


According to studies, women are more attracted to guys who aren’t afraid to share exactly how they are feeling. This openness is magnetic, and if you can tap into this one with this special girl, she won’t be able to keep herself from wanting you.

Of course, this is a risk, but it’s better to find out sooner than later if she is on the same page as you. This bold move is going to make her want you like no other man, or it’s going to be the card that calls it quits.

You’ve gotta do what you’ve gotta do!

As a man do you have all the above qualities? As a lady can you fall for a man that has all the above qualities?

Let hear from you guys.