1. Negligence:

 Negligence on the part of the men who the sugar mummies have dated or courted in the past often drive them into the arms of a younger man. The difference in age makes the relationship a dynamic one with lots of emotional tides as the younger boys practically worship them and treat them right because of the age difference.

The older men are probably too busy to notice them or they feel they have seen all there is to be seen in them whereas, the younger boys are eager to explore and find out more about them.

They enjoy the sugar mummies’ company and their life experiences seem to give them a new foresight.

2. Distraction from life’s trials and disappointments:

Women that have been hit most times by life’s waves in failed marriages, constant abuses, career issues find themselves constantly depressed.

They become lonely and desire something less serious and drama free. They want to eat their cake and have it.

They want to have relationships without the thread of commitment which has brought them mysteries and pains in their earlier relationships. Thus, they go for younger boys that are baggage free.

They after all are young and haven’t been hurt enough to become cynical. They are more open and optimistic, therefore none of these things matter to them.

3. A chance at youthfulness and vibrancy:

The sugar mummies who have been regarded as old cargos want to feel young again.

They could have been bored to death in their earlier relationships so having younger men around add exciting colours to their lives.

The sugar babies wouldn’t dance to their classical music, they would prefer their regular hip hop so the women start to follow the trending issues of the younger generation and before long, the women start to view things from a different perspective; an awareness of a new world.


Sugar mummies most times are women who have been trampled upon by the men in their league.

Men who have forced them to do things they didn’t want to do while disregarding them. The younger boys respect and admire these women as they understand that they are powerful and have become successful in their chosen career paths. They show interest in their works and affairs.

The sugar mummies love this new change of pattern as they have the men’s respect as the table gets turned. The younger boys appreciate them and treat them with royalty.

5. Emotion:

The sugar mummies have had turbulent times with their emotion. The thrill of having young energetic men doting on them and feeding their emotion with the intimacy they desire satisfies them. Sugar mummies even though they have control over their lives have a thirst for love and care. The sugar babies play that role well for them.

6. Passionate love making:

Sugar mummies are sexually active women. The sugar babies although younger in age know their way round when it comes to sex. Sexual experience isn’t dependent on age so they are able to give their sugar mummies a wild time in bed.

They are able to take the women through bends and paths that lead to ecstasy. Thoughts of the boys and what they could do to them in bed makes the women’s bodies tinge with desire. They go on sexual exploration with these women and take them to pleasurable heights the sugar mummies have considered unattainable.


Everything in life is relative, the sugar mummies and their sugar babies have found something that works well with them. The women are comfortable with the arrangement. They are not going to set limitations for themselves by placing the views and opinions of the society over their happiness. They see the younger boys as their mates and bond with them.